Recovery nurse favors and flirts wit...

Recovery nurse favors and flirts with male patients

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recovery

Lexington, KY

#1 Tuesday Mar 20
I'm not usually one to complain but me and my husband are both patients at this recovery center and I have noticed that one of the main nurses seems to be a little to flirty and touchy feely with my husband as well as other male patients here. And even though she is cordial with the female patients it isn't the same kind treatment that she gives to certain male patients, including my husband. Its sad too because it affects us it so many ways, plus I know she is married and has kids. I don't know what to do in this situation and it breaks my heart. I have even tried to smile and be nice to her to see how she would treat me but honestly she gives me that b!!!! look we all women know. I want to confront her but don't know how to do it. I just want to let her know its not right. I'm not the only female paient that has noticed her behavior before.
This Guy

United States

#2 Tuesday Mar 20
recovery wrote:
I'm not usually one to complain but me and my husband are both patients at this recovery center and I have noticed that one of the main nurses seems to be a little to flirty and touchy feely with my husband as well as other male patients here. And even though she is cordial with the female patients it isn't the same kind treatment that she gives to certain male patients, including my husband. Its sad too because it affects us it so many ways, plus I know she is married and has kids. I don't know what to do in this situation and it breaks my heart. I have even tried to smile and be nice to her to see how she would treat me but honestly she gives me that b!!!! look we all women know. I want to confront her but don't know how to do it. I just want to let her know its not right. I'm not the only female paient that has noticed her behavior before.
Frankly you shouldn't have to say anything. Your man should have politely but firmly shut that shit down right away. I love my wife, love what we have, and wouldn't risk it just to let some flirty nurse stroke my ego (plus my wife is scary as shit when whe's mad, so it would be a simple act of self-preservation on my part :-P).

Some people are just overly flirty. Maybe she isn't aware she's doing it. Or maybe in a clinical setting such as this, she is using is to disarm and put men at ease who are going through difficult times.

Either way, if you've made your discomfort with her behavior known to your man and he's not discouraged it, it's not the flirty nurse that you need to deal with here.

Just my 2 cents (or less) worth.
Wedorecover

United States

#3 Saturday Apr 7
Jackie or Kelly??

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