Recovery nurse favors and flirts wit...

Recovery nurse favors and flirts with male patients

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recovery

Lexington, KY

#1 Mar 20, 2018
I'm not usually one to complain but me and my husband are both patients at this recovery center and I have noticed that one of the main nurses seems to be a little to flirty and touchy feely with my husband as well as other male patients here. And even though she is cordial with the female patients it isn't the same kind treatment that she gives to certain male patients, including my husband. Its sad too because it affects us it so many ways, plus I know she is married and has kids. I don't know what to do in this situation and it breaks my heart. I have even tried to smile and be nice to her to see how she would treat me but honestly she gives me that b!!!! look we all women know. I want to confront her but don't know how to do it. I just want to let her know its not right. I'm not the only female paient that has noticed her behavior before.
This Guy

United States

#2 Mar 20, 2018
recovery wrote:
I'm not usually one to complain but me and my husband are both patients at this recovery center and I have noticed that one of the main nurses seems to be a little to flirty and touchy feely with my husband as well as other male patients here. And even though she is cordial with the female patients it isn't the same kind treatment that she gives to certain male patients, including my husband. Its sad too because it affects us it so many ways, plus I know she is married and has kids. I don't know what to do in this situation and it breaks my heart. I have even tried to smile and be nice to her to see how she would treat me but honestly she gives me that b!!!! look we all women know. I want to confront her but don't know how to do it. I just want to let her know its not right. I'm not the only female paient that has noticed her behavior before.
Frankly you shouldn't have to say anything. Your man should have politely but firmly shut that shit down right away. I love my wife, love what we have, and wouldn't risk it just to let some flirty nurse stroke my ego (plus my wife is scary as shit when whe's mad, so it would be a simple act of self-preservation on my part :-P).

Some people are just overly flirty. Maybe she isn't aware she's doing it. Or maybe in a clinical setting such as this, she is using is to disarm and put men at ease who are going through difficult times.

Either way, if you've made your discomfort with her behavior known to your man and he's not discouraged it, it's not the flirty nurse that you need to deal with here.

Just my 2 cents (or less) worth.
Wedorecover

United States

#3 Apr 7, 2018
Jackie or Kelly??
sweet tart

Lexington, KY

#4 May 30, 2018
Wedorecover wrote:
Jackie or Kelly??
Kelly
David

United States

#5 May 30, 2018
What size is your neck?
recovery

Lexington, KY

#6 May 30, 2018
This Guy wrote:
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Frankly you shouldn't have to say anything. Your man should have politely but firmly shut that shit down right away. I love my wife, love what we have, and wouldn't risk it just to let some flirty nurse stroke my ego (plus my wife is scary as shit when whe's mad, so it would be a simple act of self-preservation on my part :-P).

Some people are just overly flirty. Maybe she isn't aware she's doing it. Or maybe in a clinical setting such as this, she is using is to disarm and put men at ease who are going through difficult times.

Either way, if you've made your discomfort with her behavior known to your man and he's not discouraged it, it's not the flirty nurse that you need to deal with here.

Just my 2 cents (or less) worth.
My husband has told everyone there we are married. We go at the same time hold hands and it's obvious that we are together and love each other. It's just quite rude frankly that she treats men patients better, moves them ahead so they can get out quicker etc. And he's told her we are married. So what else can he really do? Sounds like you would just say something just because you are scared of your wife and not really because you love her. And she's aware she's doing it everyone is aware. There is a difference between polite, good or sweet to paients. So next time you can put your 2 cents in the take a penny leave a penny at the store.
Marlboro Man

Nicholasville, KY

#7 May 30, 2018
recovery wrote:
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My husband has told everyone there we are married. We go at the same time hold hands and it's obvious that we are together and love each other. It's just quite rude frankly that she treats men patients better, moves them ahead so they can get out quicker etc. And he's told her we are married. So what else can he really do? Sounds like you would just say something just because you are scared of your wife and not really because you love her. And she's aware she's doing it everyone is aware. There is a difference between polite, good or sweet to paients. So next time you can put your 2 cents in the take a penny leave a penny at the store.
How about giving me a piece of p@ssy and getting even with them ..
Tyrone

United States

#8 May 30, 2018
Marlboro Man wrote:
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How about giving me a piece of p@ssy and getting even with them ..
Whatís up my man? I already told you how itís hanging over here. Get back atcha boy.
Keep the Change

United States

#10 May 30, 2018
recovery wrote:
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My husband has told everyone there we are married. We go at the same time hold hands and it's obvious that we are together and love each other. It's just quite rude frankly that she treats men patients better, moves them ahead so they can get out quicker etc. And he's told her we are married. So what else can he really do? Sounds like you would just say something just because you are scared of your wife and not really because you love her. And she's aware she's doing it everyone is aware. There is a difference between polite, good or sweet to paients. So next time you can put your 2 cents in the take a penny leave a penny at the store.
Anyone whoís grown, paying attention, and thus has any knowledge of this mean ole world, knows that not everyone will play by their rules of propriety, politeness or respect.

If someone is secure in their relationship, they donít snivel about the cheap flirty skanks of the world macking on their men, because they know those efforts will be always wasted.

If anyone thinks someone is behaving inappropriately or unprofessionally at a place of business, and wants to see that behavior change, griping here is not the answer. They need to speak to supervisor, or a supervisorís supervisor, or if needed, a regulatory official.

Otherwise, they should thicken up that skin and shore up those trust issues.
David

United States

#11 May 31, 2018
Keep the Change wrote:
<quoted text>

Anyone whoís grown, paying attention, and thus has any knowledge of this mean ole world, knows that not everyone will play by their rules of propriety, politeness or respect.

If someone is secure in their relationship, they donít snivel about the cheap flirty skanks of the world macking on their men, because they know those efforts will be always wasted.

If anyone thinks someone is behaving inappropriately or unprofessionally at a place of business, and wants to see that behavior change, griping here is not the answer. They need to speak to supervisor, or a supervisorís supervisor, or if needed, a regulatory official.

Otherwise, they should thicken up that skin and shore up those trust issues.
What size is your neck?
Keep the Change

United States

#12 May 31, 2018
David wrote:
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What size is your neck?
One dickswidth narrower than your mom's every night. Although that measurement varies from night to night. She does love her some variety... eats it up, you could say!

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